<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Matatoa Counselling]]></title><description><![CDATA[Therapy focusing on emotional connection, healing, and personal growth, using EFT and trauma-informed approaches to support lasting change]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2026 21:04:49 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.matatoa.ca/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Hold Me Tight® with Horses: Grounding Nature and Proven Healing Benefits]]></title><description><![CDATA[A strained relationship rarely heals through speed. When conversations feel charged, bodies tense, and old patterns take over, the nervous system needs safety before it can make room for closeness. That is where the Hold Me Tight Program and the grounded pace of horses and nature can work beautifully together. The Hold Me Tight® Program is based on Emotionally Focused Therapy, a well-researched approach to strengthening adult bonds. It helps couples understand the cycle that keeps them stuck,...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/hold-me-tight-with-horses-grounding-nature-and-proven-healing-benefits</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8f2c1ba6bf65007ed207e1</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 16:29:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_8b4212c47c774d1f94a8140020b311bc~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Embracing Authenticity in a Fake World Lessons from Brene Brown]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world flooded with curated images, polished personas, and endless filters, the pressure to present a perfect version of ourselves has never been greater. This constant performance can leave us feeling disconnected, exhausted, and unsure of who we really are beneath the surface. Brene Brown, a leading researcher on vulnerability and courage, offers powerful insights into why embracing authenticity is essential for living a fulfilling life. Her work reminds us that being genuine is not...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/embracing-authenticity-in-a-fake-world-lessons-from-brene-brown</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a358a003306f881e522f89b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2026 18:32:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_8c54e61e946e4649a2eeaf196b49261a~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hold Me Tight® with Horses: Cultivating Clarity]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hold Me Tight® with Horses is an experiential adaptation of the Hold Me Tight® program that brings together the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with guided equine interactions. The goal is not to use horses as the therapy itself, but to use the interactions with horses as a a present moment reflection of their cycle - one that helps couples slow down, notice what is happening inside them, and see how their relational patterns unfold in real time, free from the complexities and...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/hold-me-tight-with-horses-cultivating-clarity</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2c40c38d10dcf62891215c</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 17:28:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_000697aef9bd49bb8bfc48719e6d035b~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Discover Connection and Growth in Our Hold Me Tight® with Horses Couples Group]]></title><description><![CDATA[Couples often face challenges that feel isolating and difficult to navigate alone. When communication breaks down or emotional distance grows, it can be hard to find a way back to connection. Our Hold Me Tight® with Horses psychoeducational group offers a unique space for couples to come together, learn, and grow. This group blends the power of relationship education with the calming presence of horses, creating an environment where couples can feel supported without pressure to share...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/discover-connection-and-growth-in-our-hold-me-tight-with-horses-couples-group</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f111dae1a06255b504c50a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2026 20:06:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_8ed9717e365c4808904c1117fe6ceb2e~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Don't Bleed in front of sharks]]></title><description><![CDATA[****Taken directly from  https://www.eftitaliacommunity.com/en/dont-bleed-in-front-of-the-sharks/?fbclid=IwY2xjawOuczlleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFVU1R0ZjZCcllBSWRiZ1Qyc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHlAFLhE_QOKnIwHZFyyvvW4Kag0LWYo7CxXCELSupz1cAIEoY8_dpmgJ0BnS_aem_NIUiQB0KCT1OW1GV3JCU2A Showing ourselves as hurt, vulnerable, reacting by snapping or shutting down: reactivity that speaks of connection and hope – “You don’t bleed in front of sharks”  is a Brazilian saying that reveals one of...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/don-t-bleed-in-front-of-sharks</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6941980d4d149c1676cf449e</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 17:43:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_4847fd1779854ca2bda83233f3a853fe~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding the Right therapy Support for Your Needs]]></title><description><![CDATA[When couples face challenges, seeking therapy can be a powerful step toward healing and connection. Finding the right services tailored to your unique needs can inspire hope and foster a deeper understanding between partners. This journey is about discovering support that resonates with your relationship and helps you grow together. Understanding the Importance of Therapy Services for Couples Therapy services offer a safe space where couples can explore their feelings, communicate openly, and...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/finding-the-right-therapy-support-for-your-needs</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69245a6df0736c54fcb07153</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2025 17:24:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_1cf5d77569224718b1436559c7bd25c4~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding the Impact of Groundwork Activities with Horses]]></title><description><![CDATA[Engaging with horses through groundwork activities offers a unique opportunity to foster connection, trust, and emotional growth. These interactions go beyond simple training or riding; they invite a deeper understanding of communication, patience, and presence. For couples seeking to nurture hope and connection in their relationship, exploring horse groundwork can be a transformative experience. *** At Matatoa, the horses are integrated into Group work and Intensive sessions.  If planned in...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/understanding-the-impact-of-groundwork-activities-with-horses</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68ff61754700142f0844651c</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 14:46:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_aca363f0ff39423fb987e9339d4114d9~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Connection Between Mindfulness and Horses]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world that often feels rushed and disconnected, finding moments of calm and connection can be a challenge. 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Whether you're raising teens, navigating a...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/strengthening-bonds-in-a-busy-world-why-your-family-needs-relationship-support</link><guid isPermaLink="false">687e2d5001d745d5ce05170d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 18:15:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_3089de5fd5e74b86be874742d60ef519~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding the Healing Power of Horses]]></title><description><![CDATA[Horses have wielded a majestic presence in human lives for thousands of years, serving as companions, workers, and cultural icons....]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/understanding-the-healing-power-of-horses</link><guid isPermaLink="false">685d7482e9ff61424820a772</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2025 15:34:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_57a6c8dd8013405fa77665a32af5998a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) Works-even when everything else hasn't]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you ever walked away from an argument with your partner thinking, How did we end up here again?  Maybe you weren’t even fighting —...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/why-emotionally-focused-couples-therapy-eft-works-even-when-everything-else-hasn-t</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68628278259cc1bfc62b59b0</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2025 15:12:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_b1222dddc2f9479994d923ed8bc0c41c~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reconnect, Repair, and heal: Why "Hold Me Tight with Horses" Might Be Exactly What Your Relationship Needs]]></title><description><![CDATA[Let’s be honest - relationships can be hard. Even the strongest partnerships can get tangled in patterns of disconnection,...]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/reconnect-repair-and-heal-why-hold-me-tight-with-horses-might-be-exactly-what-your-relationship</link><guid isPermaLink="false">686282b9259cc1bfc62b5a3e</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2025 14:56:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_849b8ab6fe2e4aceb5e7e6284da26752~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Yikes! I'm trying to Blog!  Horse Integrated Group Sessions this summer]]></title><description><![CDATA[Beginning blog]]></description><link>https://www.matatoa.ca/post/yikes-i-m-trying-to-blog-horse-integrated-group-sessions-this-summer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">685c22f47d12e91fd9b84956</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2025 16:44:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2bd146_061e291f278847bd9da5055ff9cfc5f2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>natashawakefield45</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>